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My 35M first gay sexual experience is coming up. What should I know? February 5, PM Subscribe I am a 35 year old cis man, and I have been only with women my whole life. Suddenly I find myself being attracted to men, and my first gay sexual experience is coming up! I feel like a teenager again : How should I prep for this?

I am a 35 year old cis man, and I've been only with women up to now. I've always considered myself enthusiastically hetero. A year or so ago, I first experienced the pleasure of anal sex i. Since then, I have been fantasising strongly about being gay by a real penis. I've begun experiencing some attraction towards men, and for the first time been aroused by gay porn.

I really want to be fucked by a guy! So long story short, I've met a kind, gentle gay man who knows about this history of mine and is interested in being my partner in this adventure. The big day is coming up soon. I'm really excited but really nervous! I encounter I should try to be spontaneous but I have so many questions!

What are gay I should be keeping in mind? As a man with only heterosexual experience before this, how do I prepare physically? What will help in making the experience as fun as encounter Thanks for your help and suggestions!

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A lot of it. Lube lube lube. Also have a good poop before your date. A buttplug up there for a while is a good way to make that happen. Laxative might work too, I've never used it. Possibly an enema if you want to deal with getting the equipment for that and learning to use it, do that in the bathroom because messes can happen.

Any of these things can result in surprisingly large poops, have the plunger handy just in case. A gay will also help you get used to "putting things in your butt and leaving it there for a while" as well as help you get in encounter with your butt muscles on a much deeper level than you're used to; there's a thing you can learn that is sort of like pushing out a large poop but also has its own special Once you learn it it's also useful for smoother excretion, too.