Experimental gay

Being gay and having gay friends, I hear a lot about 2 kinds of dealings with straight guys. The first is youthful experimentation, before the participants are fully aware or comfortable with their sexual orientation. Again, I know nothing of the sort, and always considered straight gay to be completely unattainable.

So basically, the question is for straight guys:. Have you ever had sexual contact with another male, and under what circumstances. Men and women can experiment without being gay, or for that matter bi … I think most of this stuff just happens out of plain boredom. And instead of wearing latex gloves, I use lambskin.

I participated in this type of youthful experimentation from about the age of 6 until 12ish with both males and females. To begin with, I was sexually molested experimental the age of 4 by a boyfriend of my mothers. I do not in any way feel this has any relation to my experimentation with boys or any question of experimental determination - I only bring this up to point out that I was exposed to sexuality in a bad way!

It was fooling around, gay the parents or other friends should never know about. It was exciting, fun, etc. At 13 I moved to another state with my mother and attended a Christian school. Correction - I attended a fundamentalist non-denominational Christian school. VERY rigid, literalist Christian types.

I attended this school from 13 to graduation. During this time, as with everyone, you begin to mature in terms of your sexual identity, etc. I lived with a great deal of confusion about what my youthful experiences really meant about myself. I should say also that I did have a couple girlfriends while in high-school but never anything beyond 1st base.

After high-school I met and married a woman and we were together for 9 years. I found out that it is actually quite common.

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It helped me let go of all that guilt and self-condemnation. I feel fortunate to have left much of the teachings from my junior and high-school behind me. I want to make clear that I do not think being gay is wrong any longer. My husband and I both have had same gender sexual experiences.

For him it was a friendly arrangement, finding it much easier and nicer to hook up with his gay friend than to pick up a experimental woman at a bar. Most of my experiences were similar, although add in a few where it was gay scary to be with a strange woman than with a strange man. I also was always upfront about my orientation and seldom ran into any problems.

And horny.